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					<description><![CDATA[No Phone, No Problem By Nasiruddin Hamid, Qadian, Punjab, India. We all love playing video games, watching funny shorts, and making movies on our smartphones. However, some of us use the cellphones much more than others. I live in Northern India with my family. After school, my father gives me his cellphone for ten minutes [&#8230;]]]></description>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><em><span style="font-size: 18px; color: #008000;">By Nasiruddin Hamid, Qadian, Punjab, India.</span></em></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 24px; color: #008000;"><strong>W</strong></span><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #000080;">e all love playing video games, watching funny shorts, and making movies on our smartphones. However, some of us use the cellphones much more than others.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #000080;">I live in Northern India with my family. After school, my father gives me his cellphone for ten minutes to play games and enjoy SnapChat and YouTube, etc. When those ten minutes turn into 20 or 30 minutes, and then into an hour, I don’t even realize it—but my father does.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #000080;">Last year, I started avoiding playing outdoors and spending time with my friends. I was using the phone more and more without telling my parents. But my parents never stopped keeping an eye on me.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #000080;">One day, my father told me when he was a kid, he used to play many outdoor games like <strong>Pakadam Pakdai, Baraf Pani, Pitthu Gram,</strong> and <strong>Addi</strong> <em>(see the end note below for a short explanation of these games children play in India)</em>. He said, “We didn’t have phones, but we&#8217;d read comics and novels in Urdu and English for our pasttime.”</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #000080;">Thinking of those outdoor games and thoughts of reading comics and novels really got me interested. So I made a deal with my dad that he and I would play outside and read books together. He bought me a new bicycle, and now I go riding; he runs beside me while I ride my bicycle, which is quite fun! He also bought me new comics and a few novels, and he reads them with me.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #000080;">I really like reading the tales of <strong>Akbar and Birbal</strong>, as well as the stories of <strong>Mullah Nasruddin</strong>. They are full of humor and wisdom. I must say, I find reading books or riding a bicycle outdoors much more interesting than playing video games or watching YouTube shorts.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #000080;">Yes, I know cellphones have their own benefits, but as my father says, “They are more useful after a certain age.” We should limit our phone usage. I have read that too much smartphone use can damage our brain cells, affect eyesight, and even our emotional health.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #000080;">I believe my parents when they tell me that there can be many unforeseen negative impacts of these devices. I always trust them with any issues that come up.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #000080;">As school age kids, we should use cellphones only for short duration, and under parental supervision and guidance.</span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #003300;"><em>By Nasiruddin Hamid, Qadian, Punjab, India</em>.<br />
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<p><span style="color: #800000;"><strong><span style="font-size: 16px;">Notes:</span></strong></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #800000;"><strong>Akbar and Birbal Stories:</strong> Akbar was a Mughal emperor who ruled a large region in South Asia that includes modern-day Northern and Central India, Afghanistan, and Pakistan during the 16th century. Birbal was a close advisor and wise minister in the court of Akbar for some 30 years. The Akbar and Birbal stories are not only entertaining but also witty and are widely-read favorites of Indian kids.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #800000;"><strong>Mullah Nasruddin </strong>(aka Nasreddin Hodja) appears in countless stories—mostly witty or wise—where he is shown as a (holy) fool that teaches great wisdom to the world. He is considered a Sufi (Islamic) character and he may have actually lived in the 13th century in present day Turkey and may have traveled to many lands as his stories are widely known.<strong><br />
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<p><span style="color: #800000;"><strong><span style="font-size: 16px;">A Short Explanation of the Games:</span></strong></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #800000;"><strong>Pakdam Pakdai:</strong> Run and catch game One kid tries to catch others who try to run away.<br />
</span><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #800000;"><strong>Baraf Pani:</strong> When caught, you freeze like &#8220;Baraf&#8221; (Hindi word for ice) until someone frees you by saying “Pani” (Hindi word for water)<br />
</span><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #800000;"><strong>Pitthu Gram:</strong> Players break a stack of seven stones with a ball and then try to rebuild it before getting tagged by the fielders.<br />
</span><span style="font-size: 16px;"><span style="color: #800000;"><strong>Addi:</strong> is played with two teams of 5/5 players. One team starts in a circle and tries to reach the end of the field line while the other team chases and blocks the players from reaching it.</span></span></p>
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